The Number One Obstacle To Creating Affirmations That Work

Are you tired of rattling off affirmations day and night and not getting anywhere? The answer is at your fingertips.

I have met so many deliberate creators who are completely disillusioned with affirmations. They have created and repeated positive statements in the most creative ways imagineable and yet, nothing is showing up.

Can you relate?

Don't give up!!

According to Lynne McTaggert, researcher and author of the Intention Experiment, no matter what we are intending and affirming and how carefully we craft our affirmations, our predominant personal vibration is the strength of our self love. That means that our affirmations are over ridden by our core beliefs about our intrinisic value as a person, every time.

If your level of self love and acceptance is so weak that the feelings you have about yourself range from self criticism to self loathing, that is the vibration you are constantly radiating, whether you like it or not. No matter how powerfully you attempt to affirm your desires, you simply cannot overcome that base line personal vibration.

Want to check it out? Pick the thing that you have been waiting for the longest. For this example, let's pick finding a soul mate.

After some focused thought and careful wording, you come up with a great affirmation. Your mastermind group has put a gold star on it, it feels really good. It might sound like...

I am easily, joyfully and gratefully attracting a love relationship into my life that fulfills both of us on every level, emotional, spiritual, intellectual and physical.

Doesn't that feel nice? A little gratitude, a little joy, all dimensions of the relationship covered...pretty good right?

Now for the test. Read this affirmation again and see how it feels to you:

I am easily, joyfully and gratefully attracting a love relationship into my life that fulfills both of us on every level, emotional, spiritual,5B4 intellectual and physical and I don't care how long it takes.

If your positive feeling about this affirmation crumbles, you have concrete evidence that a limiting belief is interfering with the attracting power of your affirmation.

Gary Craig, the founder of EFT, calls these interfering thoughts "tail enders." Underneath every tail ender is a mistaken belief that you are some how not good enough for the very thing you are trying to deliberately create.

Tail enders can grow to be your most valuable clue in clearing the way to your success. There is not a faster working tool for eliminating tail enders than EFT. Check out http://hubpages.com/hub/How-To-Tap----Successful-EFT-Explained-Simply for the EFT basic formula.

Write down your affirmation and then listen for any doubts or limitations that come up when you allow yourself to think about what it will be like for you when your desire shows up.

As you take time to tap for each of your tail enders, you steadily increase your personal vibration. You will feel better and better about yourself and before you know it, some wonderful coincidences, called synchronicities will begin to happen in your life. There is nothing like synchronicity, being in the right place at the right time, to affirm that you are indeed on the right track and right on targ5A5et to see your deliberate creations appear.

The higher your personal vibration, the more attractive you will be to your desires. This is deliberate creation at it's most magical best.

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Specialist and Personal Life Coach Coach Catherine Behan is an author, teacher, coach and master motivator. Catherine empowers people in transition to remove the obstacles blocking success and to find the inspiration and personal strength that attracts abundance and prosperity into their lives. Catherine and her colleague Virginia McConnell offer FREE weekly teleclasses to encourage EFTers in their skills. For information go to http://www.downstreamuniversity.com Catherine also creates innovative teleclass programs, workshops and seminars that bring together the Law of Attraction and EFT. To learn more about her work and sign up for more FREE tips like these, visit her site at http://www.NeverFearEFTisHere.com

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