Secrets of Upping Your Attraction Quotient-Your Best Asset

It's stock taking time! Have you taken stock of yourself?

Come every end of each fiscal year, companies are required to furnish to stakeholders their Balance Sheet, among other financial statements. Here is a summary of the company's Assets and Liabilities and how they balance out each other. The Balance Sheet reveals a lot, most importantly the "current health" of the company, and it's future potential development.

Why is this so important that it becomes part of the Company Act to have this? Because, in order to grow a company, you need to plan a strategy to maximise its assets and to minimise its liabilities. Let's apply the same concept here on increasing your Attractiion Quotient (AQ)

What are the assets you have, both innate ones and those that you developed during the later stages of your growth in life. In order to find out, you can do the following:

1. List down all your strengths and weaknesses. Circle out the top 3 things you do best - your forte and 3 things you fare worst.

2. Stare at yourself intently in the mirror. What is your best feature - facial and body? It could be your smile, your eyes, your hair, legs etc.

3. Ask your close friends around you, people whom you have known well enough and who know you well enough to give you honest and constructive feedback. If they were to use 3 words to describe you, what would those be?

By doin2206g this simple exercise, you not only get to know yourself better, you also discover how you are perceived by the outside world. I may think I am very fun-loving, but my idea of fun may vary to a very large degree than what most of my friends would concur. If the disparity is too wide, dig out the reasons, amend it and test it out till they achieve that perfect desired results each and every time you flashed them out.

Locate and identify your best asset. Then, simply play it up during your date. For as much as results and observation indicate, people can be attracted to only this one thing, or we call the X-factor about a person. Make it so strong that it indents a deep impression on others that they won't be able to get you off their minds, at least not for a while.

In general, if have a great smile, smile more. If you have a pair of lovely eyes that speak volumes, shouldn't you let your eyes do the talking with some intense gazes, as and when appropriately? If you have a good sense of humour, make them laugh their heads off. (note: humour is another secret which I shall touch more on). Are you adept in writing? Sms your date using words that make them feel so good - mobile bantering is too effective, in every conceivable and inconceivable ways.

More gender specific, starting with ladies - if you have nice shoulders, legs, flaunt them! Smooth silky hair, curls that tease, hair that shines! Make it even smoother, more seductive, and shinier. Good hair products and constant hair care will do the trick. (if your hair is your best asset, it must have meant that either you are born with those silky tresses, or you have spent countless trips and numerous hours visiting your hairstylist, so all you need is just double it up closer to the date)

What you say will sound like music to his ears when you have a sweet and sultry voice. So purr accordingly. One point worth mentioning though. Ladies, if your best asset is being well-endowed I strongly advice against over-brandishing for obvious reasons. Unless you have a selected specific target audience.

Are you well-known for your bubbly personality? Or your compassion and kind inner nature that makes you more endearing than the rest? How about your wit? Do you have a quick mind that makes "debating" with you fun and at the same time stimulating?

Men, if you are blessed with a low deep voice that resonates sexily, find opportunities to compliment her. Have your friends (especially gal friends) admired you for this boyish grin, or this manly charm, or this sensitivity about you that makes you affable to the opposite sex, or strong arms with clean-lined muscles, or your astute analysis of things around you that sets you at a different class?

Know thyself best, and love thyself most. Because, this will in turn bring you immense benefits and outcomes you have always wished for, not only in attracting your potential partner, but also in all aspects of your interaction with people.

Optimise Your Asset. Do it today!

Kloudiia Tay, a Dating Specialist, Love Coach and upcoming Author writes about Love and Marriage, Dating Relationships for all singles looking for love and couples wanting to create loving and lasting relationships.

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